Just because you and your best pal are hot for each other doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to end in dating—we all like having attractive friends, especially men as very “visual” creatures.But that doesn’t mean it can’t or won’t go anywhere.He’s not sure if he fits into your life at this point.
“The really odd thing is that I don't seem to have many issues asking women out. It's like I've built it up because we've been friends for so long.”4.
In fact, some of your very best friends are probably members of the opposite sex.
Now, that said, you might still have questions about how your single guys see you—particularly that friend in your circle with whom sparks always fly.
“Relationships, platonic or otherwise, are initiated out of mutual interest or compatibility, and the draw of attractiveness is certainly a primary factor,” says Ivankovich.
“But since many of the same characteristics that we would seek in a romantic relationship are the same ones we seek in a platonic relationship, it is no surprise that many friends find each themselves interested in each other.”If it hasn’t gone anywhere just yet, here’s why—from the perspective of single men.1. If you only see your guy friend sporadically, you might not be on his relationship radar just yet.