Whether you stay in this relationship or leave it, this isn’t an issue of polyamory or monogamy.This is an issue of one partner being controlling and ignoring the other partners right to decide for themselves what they want.COMMENTS CLOSED With regret, I am closing this post to further comments.I am glad that many people have found this post meaningful to their relationships in some way, and I hope i have been able to help some of the people who have come here.
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Only that their partner accept that this is what they need.
It is then up to the monogamous partner to decide, can I accept these new boundaries?
Can a relationship with these boundaries be healthy for me?
If the answer is no than the mono and poly partners are incompatible.