You may have a ratty friend who’s sneaking out information to your ex or you may be letting too many people in the world know about your daily plans.
#6 Have you bumped into your ex recently, out of the blue? There’s a good chance this whole thing was planned ahead.
After a recent break up a couple of months ago, I was shattered all over again. I was confused, and infused with happiness and sadness at the same time. I found myself stalking his facebook page more and more often, until it turned into an obsession.
We had a happy relationship, but our lives were too different to see a future together. I didn’t want to get back with him, but I still did love him. I checked out his blog, but there was no response to my comment. But there was something going on between us in Facebook. A painful Sunday I woke up early and checked his facebook page. And out of the blue, I found out through his friend’s friend’s facebook page that my ex and a few other guys were meeting up that evening for a game of something.
It’s painful to think about it, but it’s also sadistically reassuring to know that you’re not the only one hurting inside. It feels good to know your ex still hurts and suffers, and thinks about you just as much as you’re thinking about them. [Read: Googling an ex – Online obsessions] I got a call a few times, and I heard no one on the other end. But later that night, I got to know that a friend of mine from out of town was trying to call me and couldn’t hear anything from my end. The next few days saw me jumping with ecstasy and hitting rock bottom with anger and pain.
[Read: How to stop thinking about someone you still like a lot] Is my ex thinking about me? There were many more songs included in the status updates for the next few days ranging from Evanescence’s ‘My immortal’ to Rihanna’s ‘Love the way you lie’.