He has been hurt...those blasted past issues that keeps him from going forward in his life..there is nothing one can do to change his mind...period. I figure after two and a half years, you really should know this guy by now.
But he gets online and lusts after all the hotties on here.pleasures himself that way.bother with the real thing when you can do it yourself/??? As you said, there's nothing you can do to change his mind...
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I have been going out with this guy for two point five years and we just had a falling out because he still does not want a commitment from ANYBODY.is happy living alone..likes casual company but does not feel the need to be that close to anyone..a loner.
If he is not seeing other women besides you then u have nothing to worry about, just don't pressure him cause then u'll look crazy..... But she does have my commitment that I will be her partner, friend, trustworthy soulmate. Hard won experience for me, is that you do not allow a relationship to go on two years before you wake up and smell the cappuchino.
Well, if it wasn't for the internet thingy I could almost understand. I guess what I am saying is that Proposals, Marriage ect,,,isn't the finish line..the begining of the race. If after a certain amount of time, they are asking for exclusivity, introducing you to friends and family, then it is never, ever going to happen.
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Those aren't always easy choices but they might be your only ones!!
We've all been hurt before but eventually we heal and move when forward when the time is right. There will always be poor compromises and long waits.
That can be different lengths of time for different people, and nothing speeds up it more if you meet someone you really want to be with. Just my 2 cents He wont commit because hes insecure about himself..hes selfish..hes just plain not ready...i suggest you take a look at his...social life and take a hint... Dreams will wither and die on the vine, not for lack of sun, but lack of soil.
Sorry to hear you're going through this but we'll all ask you the very same question---WHY ARE YOU still dealing with this guy?
Why haven't you talked to him, let your feelings be known or otherwise taken SOME action that would move this wannabe relationship one direction or the other?